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  • Everyone needs a home. Every home needs homemaking.

    To say that the contributions of a homemaker are a luxury represents a complete misunderstanding of what a homemaker is.

    1 Feb 2019

    Nadine Bernacki

    Connection, Expectations, Home Economics, Home-Making, House Keeping, Overwhelm, Parenting, Wellness
  • 1/12 Wild Strawberries – Saturday August 23rd, 2025

    Yesterday I made a commitment to myself to publish a blog post of at least 150 words each Saturday, for 12 consecutive weeks. This is the first of twelve posts. If I post this and then don’t do it then I will embarrass myself publicly (even if no one reads this). I started to write…

    23 Aug 2025

    Nadine Bernacki

    Writing
  • Parents are the most essential workers of all…

    One of the silver linings of the cloud of Covid has been that we have learned to cherish our interactions with other, however brief. A smile from a stranger on a walk. A driveway conversation with a masked friend. An outside, socially distanced visit with extended family. Even the awkward, tedious online meetings. We have…

    12 Nov 2021

    Nadine Bernacki

    Connection, Home Economics, Overwhelm, Parenting, Self-care, Wellness
  • Recovering from Covid-19 Lockdown

    After homeschooling for a year and a half our family has returned to in-person learning, and hopefully to a time when I can regularly post to my blog.

    4 Oct 2021

    Nadine Bernacki

    Pandemic Writing, Parenting
  • Mother’s Day/VE day during Covid-19

    …in essence, the factory owners and ship builders and coal mine owners actually made their fortunes on the backs of those ‘unpaid domestic workers’ who contributed the fruit of their wombs, their time, their energy, and their creativity to create and serve those who were exploited in the workplace.

    10 May 2020

    Nadine Bernacki

    Uncategorized
  • How (and why) to clean your oven

    Vinegar and baking soda are great fun for making fizzy reaction for the kids to play with, but I somehow doubt that the chemical reaction does much of anything to the surface on which it is occurring. Maybe I’m wrong, but that’s what my experience and basic knowledge of chemistry tells me.

    24 Sep 2019

    Nadine Bernacki

    Expectations, House Keeping, Overwhelm, Wellness
  • Harpooning Glaciers

    I wrote this post in February 2019 but was promptly sidetracked by kitchen upgrades. Painting that window opened a can of worms. Then the faucet broke and had to be replaced; which meant it was a good time to sand down the counter-top; and then paint the ugly drop ceiling, and then replace the flooring,…

    2 May 2019

    Nadine Bernacki

    Uncategorized
  • Ruminating on Happiness

    Seeing other people feeling joy, forgiveness, and growing into more freedom brings me happiness. Witnessing people cooperate and help each other with compassion, kindness, and grace; and being on that team brings me joy.

    25 Apr 2019

    Nadine Bernacki

    Self-care
    Ruminating on Happiness
  • The dog ate my homework.

    So here is my post, four days late and almost completely unedited…. I hope you like it.

    20 Feb 2019

    Nadine Bernacki

    Expectations, Overwhelm, Parenting
    The dog ate my homework.
  • Fear less.

    I believe what makes me so extraordinarily careful (fearful) is that I am gifted with an imagination which can generate the most vivid and gory outcomes for almost any given situation in less than one second. And instead of visualizing the positive, hoped-for outcome, I focus on the one which my mind serves up to…

    8 Feb 2019

    Nadine Bernacki

    Self-Talk, Wellness
    Fear less.
  • The Second Birth

    …. as much as your husband or partner loves you, it’s really not possible for them to understand this part… and you need at least one person who ‘gets you’ to keep you sane. That, and probably coffee.

    16 Jan 2019

    Nadine Bernacki

    Childbirth, Connection, Overwhelm, Parenting, Post-partum depression, Self-care, Sleep
    The Second Birth
  • My First Birth Story

    As I held onto the top of the door and the roof and swung my huge body into the rental car, I felt something inside me shift, and the waters that my midwives had broken hours before finally released onto the back seat.

    11 Jun 2018

    Nadine Bernacki

    Childbirth, Post-partum depression
    My First Birth Story
  • A Normal Schedule

    Someone will wake me when I am needed, and until then, I can sleep.  Anyway, if I was already up I would miss my morning snuggles with my kids.

    11 Jun 2018

    Nadine Bernacki

    Expectations, Parenting, Self-care, Sleep, Wellness
    A Normal Schedule
  • The Peanut Gallery and The Gladiator Ring

    You’re not serving anyone up there in the Peanut Gallery, not even yourself… step down into the Gladiator’s Ring.

    12 Jun 2017

    Nadine Bernacki

    Expectations
    The Peanut Gallery and The Gladiator Ring
  • Returning Something Lost

    the world can be a safe place, sometimes strangers are people who will help if they can, and I don’t need to be afraid every time someone knocks on my door.

    3 Oct 2016

    Nadine Bernacki

    Connection
    Returning Something Lost
  • Baseball Bats and Persian Glass Ceilings

    What do Baseball Champions and the Chihuly exhibit at the ROM have in common? Teamwork and practice.

    24 Sep 2016

    Nadine Bernacki

    Connection, Expectations, Overwhelm, Parenting, Self-Talk, Wellness
    Baseball Bats and Persian Glass Ceilings
  • Longboob

    Maybe graying hair and sagging skin indicate a life transition to becoming a guide to the youth instead of competition to it.

    17 May 2016

    Nadine Bernacki

    Expectations, Perimenopause, Self-Talk
    Longboob

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